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#66FrameworkFreemiumJun 05, 2024

World Environment Day. What the science actually says to a child.

The calibrated answer

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A child asked me last June — in the context of a clinic visit that had nothing to do with climate — what was going to happen to the planet. I said: I don't know exactly. But I know that a lot of people are working on it. She said: are they the right people? I said: mostly yes.

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The question children ask about the environment is rarely the scientific question. It is the safety question: will things be all right? The scientific answer to that question is: it depends on what happens next, and what happens next depends partly on what people do. This is an honest answer and it is also an unsatisfying one, because it doesn't resolve the anxiety. It locates the outcome in the future and makes it conditional.

What I've found clinically is that this conditional framing — it depends on what people do — is actually more useful for children than either catastrophism or false reassurance. The catastrophe frame produces helplessness. The reassurance frame produces complacency. The conditional frame produces agency: there is something to do, and doing it matters.

The specific version of this that I give children: the problem is real and people are working on it seriously. The people working on it are smart and they have good tools. We don't know if it will be enough. Doing our part makes it more likely to be enough.

This is not optimism. It is accurate. And accuracy, for children, is what produces the least anxiety over the longest period.

This is what the science offers families: not certainty, but a calibrated framework. The calibrated framework is more useful than either catastrophism or false reassurance.

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